A dreamer attended a dream class feeling dejected because her
recent dream experiences had been less vibrant than previously, and she was
feeling uncharacteristically indifferent about dreams in general. Nevertheless
she remembered a dream about having a flight canceled because the airport was
under construction. In her dream, she ended up helping other people get to
their flights.
The “Tell me about
it” prompt
Last time, we isolated the symbols. Now it was time to see
what we could learn about their metaphoric meanings. To assist with this, I
like to start with the neutral prompt, “Tell me about it.” The idea is to learn
what each symbol represents to the dreamer. A symbol’s meaning will be influenced
by the dreamer’s own experience. For example, a house often symbolizes “where
we live” in our thoughts. But a person who is in a happy marriage will have a
very different attitude about her house than a person who is being abused at
home.
Tell me about…
* Airport: It’s where
you go to begin a long trip
* Take important flight: I needed to get somewhere
* With group of people:
I wasn’t alone
* Five or six: I was with a small group
* Following me:
Somehow, I was the leader
* Check-in counter: It’s
where you get your ticket confirmed
* Flight canceled: My
trip was stopped—hopefully temporarily
* Airport under construction:
They were improving and rebuilding the airport
* Terminal torn apart:
Everything was taken apart to be rebuilt
* Half-finished concrete posts: They were building new supports
* Rebar: Added
structural strength
* Chaos and debris:
Disruption
* Affected only my flight:
I was the only one not traveling
* Rest of group can make connections: Everyone else was OK
* Confused: A sense of
bewilderment
* Found myself helping: Since I wasn’t going, I made sure others were
on track for their trips
Rebuilding the
dream as a metaphor
Now it was time to retell the dream replacing the original symbols
with the dreamer’s own descriptions of them. At the same time, we would add
phrases, such as “There is a part of me,” to remind the dreamer that every symbol
in a dream is a part of herself:
There is a place
within myself where I go to begin a long trip. I need to get somewhere inside
of me. I’m not alone; I’m with a small group of my own aspects. But somehow, I’m
the leader. I go to the place where my ticket is confirmed, but I learn that
this trip within me has been stopped—hopefully temporarily. I’m improving and
rebuilding this part of me. Everything in this aspect of myself has been taken
apart to be rebuilt. I am building new supports with added structural strength.
There’s disruption. I’m the only one of my aspects not traveling. Everyone else
is OK. But there’s a sense of bewilderment, and since I’m not going, I make
sure the others are on track for their trips.
This dream delivers a clear, specific message to the
dreamer! (More tomorrow.)
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